This photo is a beautiful depiction of the pure joy that comes with the stripping away of inhibitions. Many submissive women have such rich fantasy lives and harbor incredibly erotic desires, yet they find themselves shy and tongue-tied (a form of mental bondage) when naked and in the presence of their Dominant. A good Dominant recognizes this and makes it a key part of the dance on the fringe of darkness.
I view this as part of a girl’s training. I create a bond that allows a girl to relax, breathe, and fall into me. Once she is in this place and feels safe and cared for, I strip away her clothes AND the layers of protection and/or suppression she has built up over years. I teach her to use her words AND her body to express herself when I ask her questions about her sexual hungers and cravings.
My girl knows the effect all too well. After initial embarrassment and attempts to sidestep questions (e.g. “You know the answer”), she comes through a type of awakening where she realizes her vulnerability is extremely arousing under a hungering Dominant. After her initial successes at articulating and showing her hungers, she comes to a new place where she feels so much more alive and alluring. She lets her erotic nature emerge, she dances for Him, presents herself to Him, begs for His cock in every hole, and when given permission to ride Him, she gives her body over to her hungers and undulates in the most exquisite ways.
There is indeed method to a Dominant’s perceived madness……smiles.